The Brake & the Gas
Self-esteem work, at its best, isn’t about pushing harder.
It’s about finding the brake.
Self-esteem work, at its best, isn’t about pushing harder.
It’s about finding the brake.
What if that outburst, that reckless act, or even that kick in the shins wasn’t defiance, but a desperate plea to be seen?
Life is full of unexpected trials, and from childhood through adulthood, we all face hardship and heartache—those tough moments that can either shape us or hold us back.
Imagine if you could go back in time, grab your younger self by the shoulders and speak to him or her.
Embarrassment is comfortable in the company of guilt, shame, and regret.
The most potent force in the world is not a force but the gentle power of unconditional love.
Giving voice to suppressed emotions allows for greater self-understanding and personal agency.
“At the beginning of all growth, everything imitates.”
Pramoedya Ananta Toer, Indonesian author, essayist and historian
According to Newman, at the core of people-pleasing is a lack of confidence and self-esteem.
The word is no. You might also try saying no to some people who discourage or keep you down.